Heart of Asia Romance Network

Click here to visit  http://www.heartofasiaonline.com/ (Online Membership)
or http://www.heart-of-asia.com/ (Classic Membership)

You are subscribed to the Heart of Asia Foreign Brides eZine. If you have received this mailing in error, or if you no longer wish to receive this eZine, please  click http://www.heart-of-asia.com/gen/optoutfb.php to unsubscribe. You will be automatically excluded from any future mailings.  More unsubscribe methods are desc ribed at the bottom of this message.

To prevent this from getting swept up by overzealous email filters,
please add our address (foreignbrides@heart-of-asia.com) to your email address book.

In this issue:

Advice for Singles :  How to Arrange the First Meeting

Behind the Scenes :  Classified Advertisements for Men

Quick Links

 for your Free Membership, and Join Free.

Visit http://www.heart-of-asia.com/  to visit our CLASSIC website, for profiles
and contact with ladies that do not have internet.

See http://www.heartofasiaonline.com/testimonial.php# for testimonials

Ask your questions at our new Blog: http://onlinedatingmailorderbrides.blogspot.com/

Behind the Scenes :
Heart-of-Asia.com Classic: For Ladies Only Advertisements for Men

Before IMBRA came into effect, Men were able to publish their own classified advertisements in the magazine we regularly mailed to the women members of Heart-of-Asia.com Classic membership.  We now continue this method of advertisement so that US men may again introduce themselves to thousands of ladies of our classic membership.  

Your FLO Advertisement includes your choice of mailing to Ethiopian Women, Philippines Women or Chinese and Southeast Asian women. Over 1,500 women will see your advertisement.  

As an Extra Bonus, your advertisement will also be mailed directly to 5 classic members of your choice.

Previously costing $175, the new For Ladies Only Advertisement, including FIVE Bonus Send a Kisses is now only $97.

For more details see: http://www.heart-of-asia.com/gen/expose.html

Advice for Singles : How to Arrange the First Meeting
(Part 1) 

How to Arrange the First Meeting in Person

Meeting in person is a huge step to take when a relationship has blossomed online. It is perfectly normal to have apprehensions; keep in mind that for much of your acquaintance, you have only been able interact on a very one-dimensional basis via emails, IM chats, and file uploads. Perhaps, before meeting in person, you moved on to phone calls or even web cam interactions, which were equally as monumental steps. However, meeting in person is step that, for many, will make or break the relationship.

Meeting in person brings you face-to-face with the person you have spent a significant amount of time getting to know intellectually. You may already feel as though you know your online suitor as well as you would if had you been interacting in person. However, it is still important to remain cautious and on your best behavior. Meeting in person for the first time should be an opportunity for you to comfortably interact with your new partner, so you will have to set certain boundaries to make sure that the experience is mutually beneficial and pleasant for both you and your partner.

Be Certain

Before you make arrangements that you can’t back out of, make sure that you really want to meet your virtual partner and that your partner is fully invested in meeting you. Meeting offline can be costly, but it may be a worthwhile investment. For many, meeting a potentially long-term partner in person is a serious venture and not simply a vacation excursion.

Make sure you and your partner are on the same page about the impending meeting and what that meeting could possibly mean for your relationship. Talk openly about what you expect and are hoping for. If your partner does not feel as strongly as you do, you may want to shelve the meeting idea until a later date or make arrangements with someone who is as excited to meet you as you are to meet them.

Public Meeting  

Even though you may feel as though you truly know the person you’ve been in contact with, it’s critically important to keep in mind that there are some things you simply cannot know about them until you’ve seen them face to face. Therefore, you should always meet in public and proceed with caution. If your partner truly is interested in getting to know you better, he or she will appreciate that you are cautious.

 Even though your online partner may have traveled a great distance to meet you, plan to keep a slight distance between you at first, even in person. Make plans for your partner to stay in a hotel and give them a time and place and directions to meet up with you away from where they will be staying. If your partner asks to stay with you, politely refuse. Someone who is truly your friend will understand.

How to Arrange the First Meeting  (Part 2 continued next issue.)


If you have any questions about Heart of Asia, or the Foreign Bride process or suggestions for future eZines please email me at info@heart-of-asia.com

Note: To contact me do not use the email address foreignbrides@heart-of-asia.com shown at the top of this eZine. That email address is not read by humans and is only used to automatically subscribe or unsubscribe from the eZine.


Fred Wahl

You are subscribed to the Heart of Asia Foreign Brides eZine. If you have received this mailing in error, or if you no longer wish to receive this eZine, please click this link http://www.heart-of-asia.com/gen/optoutfb.php to unsubscribe. You will be automatically excluded from any future mailings.

Or, if you would prefer to unsubscribe via postal mail, please contact us at:
Heart of Asia
2658 Del Mar Heights Road  #131
Del Mar, CA 92014 USA

Please remember to include the e-mail address we have contacted you at, and identify which newsletter you are subscribed to, or state "ALL" so that we can complete your request without delay.

Copyright 1996-2008 @ Heart of Asia Personals