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In this issue:
Advice for Singles : What to Say in Your First Emails: Part 2
Behind the Scenes : Questions from our Members
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Behind the Scenes : Questions from our Members
As a free member you certainly can send emails and chat. The limitation is that you can email or chat with Silver or Gold members only. These are the members that have paid, and that means communication with them goes both ways. They can email or chat to you, and you can email or chat back with them. Since the people who have paid for Silver or Gold memberships have indicated by paying for membership that they are sincere, and serious. So these ARE the people you should want to communicate with anyway.
B. When I log in, sometimes I see the page asking me to upgrade. Does that
mean I MUST upgrade?
We hope that those who are serious and who have a credit card, will sometimes upgrade their memberships to Silver or Gold so they can email and chat with other members, and hopefully find their life partner. Every few times a free member logs in, we show him or her the upgrade page. This is just a reminder. And it is easy to ignore and to continue to another page in the website. If you can't afford it, then no problem, just go to the next page, and then find any Silver or Gold member you like and contact him or her.
C. My friends profile says she is online, but I know she has left the
site. Why?
When you are done using HeartofAsiaOnline you should "log out". If you do not log out, then our system waits for an hour, and if no more activity, automatically logs you out. Until you are logged out, either by yourself or automatically, your profile appears like you are still online. To avoid confusion, and to avoid making members who want to chat with you think you are not friendly, just Log Out when done.
The "Log Out" link is shown at the top navigation bar on every page. Whenever you finish using HeartofAsiaOnline.com please click on this Log Out button. That takes you out of the system, and your profile will no longer show that you are online.
D. When I try to chat with someone, it ALWAYS says that member is Off-Line.
What am I doing wrong?
Two things could be happening. 1. The person could really be Off-line having left the website but forgotten to Log Out. See the last question above. 2. Or you are typing text in the chat window TOO SOON. Any typing before the other person responds, ALWAYS shows Off-Line.
When a chat request is initiated, a signal is sent to the other persons computer. This usually arrives there within a minute. Then a window opens at their computer. The person there may need a few minutes to read it and figure out what to do. Then either open the chat connection or reject the request. Only AFTER the person accepts, should any words be typed.
If you type before the person opens their chat window, you will ALWAYS see "Offline". So, don't type anything until after you get the notice that the person is connected to you. Wait for it. If you don't see it after 10 minutes, then move on the some one else, this person could be already gone, chatting with someone else, or not paying attention to her computer.
E. I was chatting, then I saw a message "You are out of time" and my chat session ended. Why?
If you are a Gold member or chatting with one, you can chat for up to 4 hours of chat per day, and Silver members for 3 hours per day.
3 or 4 hours is a LONG time for chatting. The reason some people "Time out" is that they forget to close their chat window after they finish a chat session, and the timer keeps running. The timer runs as long as your chat window is open at your computer, regardless of whether you are chatting or not. To avoid "timing out" please close the chat window at the end of any chat session.
Advice for Singles : What to Say in Your First Emails: Part 2
Question
Everything
Making
your partner feel important is a great way to help them open up about
themselves. That is not to say that every email should be in a Q & A
format, but for each piece of information you give about yourself, ask a
question about them as well. While most people may not be able to think of what
to say or are hesitant to write endlessly about themselves (although some are
not!), asking questions will help them find something to say and will
facilitate the progression of the relationship. Be careful not to sound pushy
or demanding or as though you are trying to probe too deeply, but ask
open-ended questions that will provide you with more than a ‘yes’ or ‘no’
answer.
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Best
Fred Wahl
Matchmaker
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